There is nothing religious in watching Britainâs parliament struggle through the crisis that is Brexit. Although you would be forgiven in asking the almighty for guidance! The original deadline for Brexit was set 2 years ago – this Friday coming, the 29th of March. What happens is by no means clear but what is clear is how effective leadership, or a lack of it, really does matter.
âThere is a saying in Tibetan, ‘Tragedy should be utilized as a source of strength.’ No matter what sort of difficulties, how painful experience is, if we lose our hope, that’s our real disaster.â â Dalai Lama XIV. Itâs easy to despair at goings on in the world…. But as is typical, often in the worst of circumstances we will always see inspirational examples of courage.
A while back two people going through the same experience in an organisation were sharing their perspectives with me, independently. What was amazing was that their experiences were the polar opposite.
Person One was positive. Person Two negative. Same situation, same circumstances – but very different perceptions of what was going on.
“Behaviour is what a man does. Not what he thinks, feels or believes.” – Emily Dickenson
âLetâs have a meeting about that meeting.â These were the words from my boss at the time, over 20 years ago when I worked in a multi-national. I started to laugh and replied: âSo weâre having a meeting about the meeting about another meeting?â He laughed too.