Unless youâ€™ve been living under a rock, youâ€™ve most likely heard of â€˜Normal Peopleâ€™, the Irish drama based on Sally Rooneyâ€™s best-selling novel.
The BBC series of the book has become a smash hit around the world, breaking all sorts of records. For example, the new series received 16.2 million views in itâ€™s first week on the BBC streaming service. The opening week record was previously held by the first season of Killing Eve, which received 10.8 million total requests in its first week.
I wasnâ€™t going to watch it until a friend of mine I wouldnâ€™t have expected to like it, said he really did. So I was curious.
If youâ€™re on this mailing list a while youâ€™re probably aware that in my mid-20s (now scarily over 20 years ago!) I went through a very challenging personal period – a time that was extremely difficult mentally.
And part of my journey out of that terrain, was to get some help through counselling. I was lucky that I was connected to someone who was perfect for me. And he helped me to gradually turn things around and in the process learn many priceless lessons – that still stand to me today and are as relevant in my business life as much as my personal one.
Often we set standards that are too high for a situation and so we experience frustration and disappointment. Other times we set our standards too low and so don’t experience the success or enjoyment we should.
Everyone can be forgiven for falling victim to a â€˜pity partyâ€™, particularly in challenging times. But if I’ve learned anything in my own life and working with leaders, it’s that the right mindset is key to creating miracles.
One of the most powerful things Iâ€™ve discovered in a leadership context (be it business or life) is that we all have an inner narrator. When people or events donâ€™t line up with the way we like them, youâ€™ll find that voice is activated. Most will listen to that voice as if itâ€™s the real them.